What is your favorite way to humiliate someone….If that’s their thing?
“Ahhhhhhh! so many perversely effective ways and so many available varieties of submissives to use them on.
“To borrow from another adage, “Variety is the spice of life”.
No matter how enjoyable any pleasure is, only repeating that pleasure over and over, again and again without any change or newness will eventually lead to dissatisfaction spawned by boredom with what was once very stimulating.
One secret to never being bored is seeking new vistas and then exploring and subjugating virgin territory.
I adore beginners–like a brand SPANKING new subbie toy to play with, spank, shock [perhaps physically and/or psychologically], and even more teasingly torment because I can. Of course, they love it!
“It’s also true that enjoying a favorite pleasure is often a powerful motivator and stimulant.
Looking forward to re-experiencing something desirable, savoring each and every sensuous taste of what you’ve been craving to relish, and remembering all you can about how good it truly was are some of life’s most succulent delicacies.
“So the paradoxical truth is, “Find and embrace new pleasures and enjoy favorite things too”.
“I do both of these when it comes to humiliating someone who just may turn out to measure up to My rigorous standards.
“Along with My desires, mood, mindset, hunches, and so on–what will truly humiliate someone depends on the background, state of mind, cravings, and needs of who I’m bending to My will.
“Not only is flipping the script on someone often quite amusing, it is frequently a very effective means of thoroughly humiliating them. Many of My clients are very reserved, logical, unemotional, paint by the numbers and always stay inside the lines kind of individuals in their public lives. For them and you who are similar to these kind of My buttoned-up property, irresistibly compelling them to do something out of character [like slutty dance for Me in a frilly, sexy, red-hot panties] entertains Me and they report it embarrasses them to no end. Getting so much DEEPER AND DEEPER inside a muscular athlete’s head(s) that he must obey Me when I command him to dress up in a lovely French maid’s outfit and wait on Me and My friends hand and foot, gives Me the giggles as I watch him blush more than he ever has.
“No matter the specifics, after alluring somebody out of their comfort zone and into My kinkier dominion, they often confess something like this to Me: What truly rattles their cage and blows their mind [I’ve manipulated thanks to mesmerizing and/or other methodologies] is knowing they’ve revealed things to Me that would ceaselessly humiliate them unstoppably if their family, relatives, friends, coworkers, or associates ever found out what I’ve gotten or driven them to do.
“There are some very successful people who find Me drawing them into living out their infantilism fetishes quite humbling.