S&M is like a kaleidoscope of forbidden and delicious feelings— wicked delights, sadistic curiosity, gleeful selfishness, narcissism, superiority, extreme self-indulgence and of course, high sexual arousal. I feel as though I’m expanding in body and soul. It’s a feeling of grandness like a Queen at Her coronation
What seems paradoxical is the fact that I care deeply about the very person I’m “using”. Regardless of how close they may or may not be to me in “ordinary” life, I always feel a unique affinity— for example, even for submissive strangers met at a party.
…We have shared moments of remarkable intimacy, trust and transcendence. But, the Real attraction of Dominance and submission is that it’s HOT! Done right, and with the right person, it is really hot and in volcanic dimensions. And— in surprising ways. For example, I never would have thought it possible that I could have an “O” inflicting pain. But I have.
– Mistress Kat
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