HOW MISTRESS MARQUESA FEELS & WHAT SHE DOES ABOUT AND WITH HER POWER
One gratifying element in S/M is the consensual exchange of power. Power has an exhilarating effect on Me. The exchange of power fills Me with a nurturing glow. I feel love and trust from one who would give Me his power.
When a person is kneeling at My feet, submitting to Me, there is such a feeling of power.
Power surges through me like a hot drink, beginning at the base of my torso, then fanning up and out to My nipples. At the places power touches, it spreads, surrounding, my thighs, belly, ribs with a warm glow. I am still shocked by this; surprised at the emotion generated from this unexpected source. I always seem to enjoy power in or out of “role”, but it is in this role that I feel such incredible exhilaration.
So much for what I feel, now for what I do. Spanking is amongst My favorite “CONTROL FANTASY” pastimes.
I can have a complete scene with spanking. But usually, it’s just part of a scene; a good warm-up, a gelling of positions, a great way to get started— or to finish! I use bondage for a scene as I use spices to cook with. In and of itself, the charge is limited, but, in the context of a scene, bondage is expected and relished.
When in bondage, there is no choice, just a feeling of helplessness. The responsibility is no longer yours. You must just lay back and enjoy it. There is a delicious sense of security here.
Whipping can be a kissing or a massaging. It’s like lots of electric shocks going back and forth— rapidly, so fast, so bright. There is such an enormous physical charge. Whipping is above all a mutual activity; we must do it together for it to work.
I won’t give more than my partner can handle. A successful whipping is noted by the whipped one begging for mercy and leaving saying he could have taken a little bit more.
Above all, S/M provides Me the opportunity to know and love Myself. I get joy from being a temptress and a titillating tyrant.
My slaves often get a paradoxical soothing sense of security from being My willing victim.
S/M provides Me with the space to not just tolerate these things about Myself, but to celebrate, embrace and admire them. I can sincerely love Myself unconditionally and so can My slave toy.
There is freedom and power and passion here and I am grateful to be connected with people that can respect all of Me and trust Me in their sexual surrender.
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